Archive for January, 2011

26
Jan
11

ONCE AGAIN, ANOTHER SNOW STORM HITS NEW YORK CITY.

Once again New York City has been hit by another snow storm. This time around I thought to take my camera outside with me while I was out running a few errands. Normally when I take photos I usually have an idea or a plan on what I want to take photos of.

This time around I just took random photos of local streets in Brooklyn Heights, Brooklyn.  And of some things or items that caught my eye while walking the streets of Brooklyn too.

Outdoor photography I have found can be a challenge, dealing with the elements of nature and in this case the cold winds. But I was happy with the photos that I have taken, and I do enjoy the snow too. So I was quite happy to be in the wintry mix of things.

Below are the photos that I have taken today. If you are in a city or town that does not have snow and you don’t enjoy the snow in the winter time, then be glad you are not here. *Smile*

The next photo below I thought it was funny, after all Christmas is over.

 

18
Jan
11

24 HOURS AND ALL I HAVE TO DO IS WAIT. (AGAIN…)

Now for the record, this post is not a complaint, gripe, or rant. If anything it’s an observation. If you read my blog I posted the events of what happened to me New Years Eve week. You can see the post at the following link below.

http://lulogicblog.com/2011/01/03/happy-new-year-please-tell-me-that-what-you-said-was-a-joke/

Long story short, it’s about a person that I use to date and after a four years absence he wanted to try again. I was a little hesitant. But after taking some time to think about it and talking to one of my friends about the situation I was convinced to try again.

Now I do believe giving people a second chance for I do enjoy a “comeback” story. And I had thought that the timing back then might not have been right with us, so I was willing to give it a second go around.

And I have to admit that it’s going well, we are getting reacquainted and I feel somewhat good about this and what it can become in the long run. In comparison to four years ago, he has become a totally new and different person, and I actually do enjoy it. Plus I have to admit that I do enjoy our time together.

But here is when my concern comes in. And like I have said before, it’s not a complaint, gripe, or rant. If anything it’s an observation. The only reason that I am stating this fact of an observation once again is because I know for a fact, the person that I am talking about does read my blog.

And my observation is the following.

In the past three weeks I have noticed that the amount of phone calls I have made to him has been more than what he has made to me. How is this an issue you might ask? I see it like this. I feel that with all the calls I have been making might make him feel that I am smothering him.

Granted I am not looking to get a call or text message from him every day. But at lease drop me a line once in a while just to see how I am doing. Why am I the one that has to initiate the call? Or at lease send a text message to me saying. “I am sorry for not calling, but I have been busy.” He has done that only once.

I know that there are times when you just can’t call someone.  But just check in once in a while so that I don’t have to wonder what is going on with you. I might text him in the morning saying “good morning” and I never call him when he is at work.

So when I do call it’s when I know or think he is home. The last time I called was yesterday and I left him a voice mail. And still at the time of me writing this I still have not gotten a return call or text from him. So now I have to wait maybe a day or two to try to reach out to him again. I give myself that amount of time so that he does not feel that I am smothering him, and that could be a cause for another break up.

And that is something I don’t want to go through again. A part of me does want this to work. But what gets me is the fact that we have spoken about this issue before, and he did correct it by calling a little more often, but once again he has gone back to the same routine.  So I guess I need to remind him again about this. But if I do that I might come off as being a “pest.” Like I said before, I know that a person can’t talk to someone every day. But at lease reach out once in a while to see how I am doing.

We do try to see each other on the weekends by me going to his place for the weekend. And actually due to scheduling issues, we have missed a weekend together. And that will happen from time to time, and I am totally fine with that. But at lease call me if you can’t see me, why do I have to make the move and call first?

I don’t want to start to feel that he has gotten hurt or something worse. I know that I should not worry after all he is grown. But at lease text me some time to say you are fine. I feel sometimes that when I call and get voice mail that the countdown begins, and ends once he does call.

Remember the television show “24” with that sound of the ticking clock?


That is what I hear in my mind as the countdown clock. (Funny how my mind works some times.)  If and when I do spend a weekend together with him I will bring up the issue once again as a concern and observation. And I hope that it will be corrected.

Or maybe this is just something about him that I might have to get use to. I will only know once we have this talk. To be totally honest I really don’t have any other issues with him. The time we have spent together has been very nice and better than I have expected.

So I do hope that the outcome from this will resolve this issue. It is a minor issue, and I hope that it’s one that we can work on. And I think that once we have the talk all will be well with us. I am sure that there will be a part two to this post as to what has happened during the talk and the outcome. If you ask me… I would like to think that the final outcome will work out just fine and all will be well with us.

17
Jan
11

MARTIN LUTHER KING DAY.

Martin Luther King Jr. is celebrated today, Jan. 17, 2011, for many of us we can just watch a video clip of DR. King giving the speech. Or in this case read the full text of the speech. Few speeches are remembered once read.

But this day always gives everyone a reminder of what has happened that day so many years ago. I was not born in the year of nineteen-sixty three. But once a year I am reminded for the events of the day passed.

We have come a long way from those days, but at the same time we all still have much to learn and discover. For the speech below is and what was the beginning of change for everyone.

The full text of the speech below was printed via the Huffington Post dot-com news website.

 

Martin Luther King Jr. speech:

 

I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.

Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.

But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languishing in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. So we have come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.

In a sense we have come to our nation’s capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the unalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked “insufficient funds.” But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. So we have come to cash this check — a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice. We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quick sands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God’s children.
It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro’s legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end, but a beginning. Those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. There will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges.

But there is something that I must say to my people who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice. In the process of gaining our rightful place we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred.

We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force. The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny. They have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom. We cannot walk alone.

As we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead. We cannot turn back. There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, “When will you be satisfied?” We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied, as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the Negro’s basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their selfhood and robbed of their dignity by signs stating “For Whites Only”. We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until justice rolls down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream.

I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. Some of you have come from areas where your quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive.

Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed. Let us not wallow in the valley of despair.

I say to you today, my friends, so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.

I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: “We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal.”

I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.

I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

I have a dream today.

I have a dream that one day, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of interposition and nullification; one day right there in Alabama, little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.

I have a dream today.

I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together.

This is our hope. This is the faith that I go back to the South with. With this faith we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.

This will be the day when all of God’s children will be able to sing with a new meaning, “My country, ’tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the pilgrim’s pride, from every mountainside, let freedom ring.”

And if America is to be a great nation this must become true. So let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire. Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York. Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania!

Let freedom ring from the snow capped Rockies of Colorado!

Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California!

But not only that; let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia!

Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee!

Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi. From every mountainside, let freedom ring.

And when this happens, when we allow freedom to ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God’s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, “Free at last! free at last! thank God Almighty, we are free at last!”

14
Jan
11

THE FULL TEXT OF PRESIDENT OBAMA’S SPEECH IN TUCSON, ARIZONA.

There are speeches we hear, and speeches we remember. This speech is one that we will all remember. Normally I would not post such an item, but after some time I thought it would be best to post the full text of the speech.

Think of it as something to share and or remember. For no one should have to die so unexpectedly. If you missed the televised event, you can now review what was said. The full text of the speech was printed via the New York Daily News website.

Some people might think of this as just a speech, others may think of it was words of comfort.  To me they are words of comfort.

Below is the full text of President Obama’s speech from the tragedy in Tucson, Arizona.

 

THE PRESIDENT:  Thank you.  (Applause.)  Thank you very much.  Please, please be seated.

To the families of those we’ve lost; to all who called them friends; to the students of this university, the public servants who are gathered here, the people of Tucson and the people of Arizona:  I have come here tonight as an American who, like all Americans, kneels to pray with you today and will stand by you tomorrow.

There is nothing I can say that will fill the sudden hole torn in your hearts.  But know this:  The hopes of a nation are here tonight.  We mourn with you for the fallen.  We join you in your grief.  And we add our faith to yours that Representative Gabrielle Giffords and the other living victims of this tragedy will pull through.

Scripture tells us: There is a river whose streams make glad the city of God, the holy place where the Most High dwells. God is within her, she will not fall; God will help her at break of day.

On Saturday morning, Gabby, her staff and many of her constituents gathered outside a supermarket to exercise their right to peaceful assembly and free speech.  They were fulfilling a central tenet of the democracy envisioned by our founders –- representatives of the people answering questions to their constituents, so as to carry their concerns back to our nation’s capital.  Gabby called it “Congress on Your Corner” -– just an updated version of government of and by and for the people.

And that quintessentially American scene, that was the scene that was shattered by a gunman’s bullets.  And the six people who lost their lives on Saturday –- they, too, represented what is best in us, what is best in America.

Judge John Roll served our legal system for nearly 40 years. A graduate of this university and a graduate of this law school, Judge Roll was recommended for the federal bench by John McCain 20 years ago appointed by President George H.W. Bush and rose to become Arizona’s chief federal judge.

His colleagues described him as the hardest-working judge within the Ninth Circuit.  He was on his way back from attending Mass, as he did every day, when he decided to stop by and say hi to his representative.  John is survived by his loving wife, Maureen, his three sons and his five beautiful grandchildren.

George and Dorothy Morris -– “Dot” to her friends -– were high school sweethearts who got married and had two daughters.  They did everything together — traveling the open road in their RV, enjoying what their friends called a 50-year honeymoon.  Saturday morning, they went by the Safeway to hear what their congresswoman had to say.  When gunfire rang out, George, a former Marine, instinctively tried to shield his wife. Both were shot. Dot passed away.
A New Jersey native, Phyllis Schneck retired to Tucson to beat the snow.  But in the summer, she would return East, where her world revolved around her three children, her seven grandchildren and 2-year-old great-granddaughter.  A gifted quilter, she’d often work under a favorite tree, or sometimes she’d sew aprons with the logos of the Jets and the Giants — to give out at the church where she volunteered.  A Republican, she took a liking to Gabby, and wanted to get to know her better.

Dorwan and Mavy Stoddard grew up in Tucson together -– about 70 years ago.  They moved apart and started their own respective families.  But after both were widowed they found their way back here, to, as one of Mavy’s daughters put it, “be boyfriend and girlfriend again.”

When they weren’t out on the road in their motor home, you could find them just up the road, helping folks in need at the Mountain Avenue Church of Christ.  A retired construction worker, Dorwan spent his spare time fixing up the church along with his dog, Tux.  His final act of selflessness was to dive on top of his wife, sacrificing his life for hers.

Everything — everything — Gabe Zimmerman did, he did with passion.  But his true passion was helping people.  As Gabby’s outreach director, he made the cares of thousands of her constituents his own, seeing to it that seniors got the Medicare benefits that they had earned, that veterans got the medals and the care that they deserved, that government was working for ordinary folks.  He died doing what he loved -– talking with people and seeing how he could help.  And Gabe is survived by his parents, Ross and Emily, his brother, Ben, and his fiancée, Kelly, who he planned to marry next year.

And then there is nine-year-old Christina Taylor Green.  Christina was an A student; she was a dancer; she was a gymnast; she was a swimmer.  She decided that she wanted to be the first woman to play in the Major Leagues, and as the only girl on her Little League team, no one put it past her.

She showed an appreciation for life uncommon for a girl her age.  She’d remind her mother, “We are so blessed.  We have the best life.”  And she’d pay those blessings back by participating in a charity that helped children who were less fortunate.

Our hearts are broken by their sudden passing.  Our hearts are broken -– and yet, our hearts also have reason for fullness.

Our hearts are full of hope and thanks for the 13 Americans who survived the shooting, including the congresswoman many of them went to see on Saturday.

I have just come from the University Medical Center, just a mile from here, where our friend Gabby courageously fights to recover even as we speak.  And I want to tell you — her husband Mark is here and he allows me to share this with you — right after we went to visit, a few minutes after we left her room and some of her colleagues in Congress were in the room, Gabby opened her eyes for the first time. Gabby opened her eyes for the first time.

Gabby opened her eyes.  Gabby opened her eyes, so I can tell you she knows we are here.  She knows we love her.  And she knows that we are rooting for her through what is undoubtedly going to be a difficult journey.  We are there for her.

Our hearts are full of thanks for that good news, and our hearts are full of gratitude for those who saved others.  We are grateful to Daniel Hernandez — a volunteer in Gabby’s office.

And, Daniel, I’m sorry, you may deny it, but we’ve decided you are a hero because you ran through the chaos to minister to your boss, and tended to her wounds and helped keep her alive.

We are grateful to the men who tackled the gunman as he stopped to reload. Right over there. We are grateful for petite Patricia Maisch, who wrestled away the killer’s ammunition, and undoubtedly saved some lives. And we are grateful for the doctors and nurses and first responders who worked wonders to heal those who’d been hurt.  We are grateful to them.

These men and women remind us that heroism is found not only on the fields of battle.  They remind us that heroism does not require special training or physical strength.  Heroism is here, in the hearts of so many of our fellow citizens, all around us, just waiting to be summoned -– as it was on Saturday morning. Their actions, their selflessness poses a challenge to each of us.  It raises a question of what, beyond prayers and expressions of concern, is required of us going forward.  How can we honor the fallen?  How can we be true to their memory?

You see, when a tragedy like this strikes, it is part of our nature to demand explanations –- to try and pose some order on the chaos and make sense out of that which seems senseless.  Already we’ve seen a national conversation commence, not only about the motivations behind these killings, but about everything from the merits of gun safety laws to the adequacy of our mental health system.  And much of this process, of debating what might be done to prevent such tragedies in the future, is an essential ingredient in our exercise of self-government.

But at a time when our discourse has become so sharply polarized -– at a time when we are far too eager to lay the blame for all that ails the world at the feet of those who happen to think differently than we do -– it’s important for us to pause for a moment and make sure that we’re talking with each other in a way that heals, not in a way that wounds.

Scripture tells us that there is evil in the world, and that terrible things happen for reasons that defy human understanding. In the words of Job, “When I looked for light, then came darkness.”  Bad things happen, and we have to guard against simple explanations in the aftermath.

For the truth is none of us can know exactly what triggered this vicious attack.  None of us can know with any certainty what might have stopped these shots from being fired, or what thoughts lurked in the inner recesses of a violent man’s mind.  Yes, we have to examine all the facts behind this tragedy.  We cannot and will not be passive in the face of such violence.  We should be willing to challenge old assumptions in order to lessen the prospects of such violence in the future. But what we cannot do is use this tragedy as one more occasion to turn on each other. That we cannot do. That we cannot do.

As we discuss these issues, let each of us do so with a good dose of humility.  Rather than pointing fingers or assigning blame, let’s use this occasion to expand our moral imaginations, to listen to each other more carefully, to sharpen our instincts for empathy and remind ourselves of all the ways that our hopes and dreams are bound together.

After all, that’s what most of us do when we lose somebody in our family -– especially if the loss is unexpected.  We’re shaken out of our routines.  We’re forced to look inward.  We reflect on the past:  Did we spend enough time with an aging parent, we wonder.  Did we express our gratitude for all the sacrifices that they made for us?  Did we tell a spouse just how desperately we loved them, not just once in a while but every single day?

So sudden loss causes us to look backward -– but it also forces us to look forward; to reflect on the present and the future, on the manner in which we live our lives and nurture our relationships with those who are still with us.

We may ask ourselves if we’ve shown enough kindness and generosity and compassion to the people in our lives.  Perhaps we question whether we’re doing right by our children, or our community, whether our priorities are in order.

We recognize our own mortality, and we are reminded that in the fleeting time we have on this Earth, what matters is not wealth, or status, or power, or fame -– but rather, how well we have loved — and what small part we have played in making the lives of other people better.

And that process — that process of reflection, of making sure we align our values with our actions –- that, I believe, is what a tragedy like this requires.

For those who were harmed, those who were killed –- they are part of our family, an American family 300 million strong. We may not have known them personally, but surely we see ourselves in them.  In George and Dot, in Dorwan and Mavy, we sense the abiding love we have for our own husbands, our own wives, our own life partners.  Phyllis –- she’s our mom or our grandma; Gabe our brother or son. In Judge Roll, we recognize not only a man who prized his family and doing his job well, but also a man who embodied America’s fidelity to the law.

And in Gabby — in Gabby, we see a reflection of our public-spiritedness; that desire to participate in that sometimes frustrating, sometimes contentious, but always necessary and never-ending process to form a more perfect union.

And in Christina — in Christina we see all of our children. So curious, so trusting, so energetic, so full of magic.  So deserving of our love.  And so deserving of our good example.

If this tragedy prompts reflection and debate — as it should — let’s make sure it’s worthy of those we have lost. Let’s make sure it’s not on the usual plane of politics and point-scoring and pettiness that drifts away in the next news cycle.

The loss of these wonderful people should make every one of us strive to be better.  To be better in our private lives, to be better friends and neighbors and coworkers and parents.  And if, as has been discussed in recent days, their death helps usher in more civility in our public discourse, let us remember it is not because a simple lack of civility caused this tragedy — it did not — but rather because only a more civil and honest public discourse can help us face up to the challenges of our nation in a way that would make them proud.

We should be civil because we want to live up to the example of public servants like John Roll and Gabby Giffords, who knew first and foremost that we are all Americans, and that we can question each other’s ideas without questioning each other’s love of country and that our task, working together, is to constantly widen the circle of our concern so that we bequeath the American Dream to future generations.

They believed — they believed, and I believe that we can be better.  Those who died here, those who saved life here –- they help me believe.  We may not be able to stop all evil in the world, but I know that how we treat one another, that’s entirely up to us.

And I believe that for all our imperfections, we are full of decency and goodness, and that the forces that divide us are not as strong as those that unite us.

That’s what I believe, in part because that’s what a child like Christina Taylor Green believed.

Imagine — imagine for a moment, here was a young girl who was just becoming aware of our democracy; just beginning to understand the obligations of citizenship; just starting to glimpse the fact that some day she, too, might play a part in shaping her nation’s future.  She had been elected to her student council.  She saw public service as something exciting and hopeful.  She was off to meet her congresswoman, someone she was sure was good and important and might be a role model.  She saw all this through the eyes of a child, undimmed by the cynicism or vitriol that we adults all too often just take for granted.

I want to live up to her expectations. I want our democracy to be as good as Christina imagined it.  I want America to be as good as she imagined it. All of us -– we should do everything we can to make sure this country lives up to our children’s expectations.

As has already been mentioned, Christina was given to us on September 11th, 2001, one of 50 babies born that day to be pictured in a book called “Faces of Hope.”  On either side of her photo in that book were simple wishes for a child’s life.  “I hope you help those in need,” read one.  “I hope you know all the words to the National Anthem and sing it with your hand over your heart.” “I hope you jump in rain puddles.”

If there are rain puddles in Heaven, Christina is jumping in them today. And here on this Earth — here on this Earth, we place our hands over our hearts, and we commit ourselves as Americans to forging a country that is forever worthy of her gentle, happy spirit.

May God bless and keep those we’ve lost in restful and eternal peace. May He love and watch over the survivors.  And may He bless the United States of America.

13
Jan
11

A CHANGE IN ASTROLOGY AND THE ZODIAC.

O-Kay… First it was the planet Pluto being considered no longer a planet some time back. And now it’s this. The change of the zodiac signs. If you’re the type of person who relies on stars to determine your personality and outcome in life, get ready for a major change for it seems the rules are about to change.

According to the Minnesota Planetarium Society, here is where the real signs of the Zodiac should fall under.

Capricorn: Jan. 20-Feb. 16.
Aquarius:
Feb. 16-March 11.
Pisces:
March 11-April 18.
Aries:
April 18-May 13.
Taurus:
May 13-June 21.
Gemini:
June 21-July 20.
Cancer:
July 20-Aug. 10.
Leo:
Aug. 10-Sept. 16.
Virgo: Sept. 16-Oct. 30.
Libra:
Oct. 30-Nov. 23.
Scorpio: Nov. 23-29.
Ophiuchus:
Nov. 29-Dec. 17.
Sagittarius:
Dec. 17-Jan. 20.

According to this I am no longer a Sagittarius but an Ophiuchus, and I am sure many more people will be affected by this. Some people might not even consider this to be true or real. You can view the article at.: http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/2KS3U6/newsfeed.time.com/2011/01/13/horoscope-hang-up-earth-rotation-changes-zodiac-signs/

But it is worth a review. After years or centuries of the former method, we all have to adjust to what might be the new version.

And what about the people that rely on this for compatibility with their soul mate? Are they no longer compatible? This will start a new debate. Personally I don’t rely on this as a major factor for dating someone. If one is dating someone and the vibe is right and they have similar interest then this may not matter to them at all. But many other people do consider this important and a major change.

We will all see what the outcome is. What are your thoughts about this?

07
Jan
11

THE DAY AFTER THE STORM.

I have to admit that I enjoy snow, especially after the first fall of the season. And of course after less than a week from our first blizzard the day after Christmas, we had another smaller snow storm in New York City.

This second snow fall was not as bad as the blizzard that we had during Christmas holiday, but it did refresh the snow that has already fallen. It’s like taking a room that has not been painted in a while and giving it a fresh coat of paint.  Once the new paint is applied the room becomes brighter.

And that was the case with New York City, we had gotten a fresh coat of snow and it did brighten up the place. While I was out today running errands I had taken a few photos of a local park in Brooklyn and a few photos of a local statue in the park as well.

At first impression it looks more like a winter wonderland. And the statues in the park had a coating of snow and ice on them that caught my interest. I did not take that many photos as I usually do for a photography post, the temperature was cold outside but I did take the photos that I wanted to have. Below are images of a modern-day winter wonderland.

03
Jan
11

HAPPY NEW YEAR, PLEASE TELL ME THAT WHAT YOU SAID WAS A JOKE.

Last week I had gotten an unexpected e-mail from someone who I have not kept in contact with in four years. Normally that would not sound odd, but the person that reached out to me was someone who I dated and ended with very bad results.

So of course after we broke up (actually I got dumped…) we really had nothing more to say to each other and I had pretty much have moved on with my life. The breakup was bad I thought and it did take me months to get over it, but with help from a good friend I was able to do just that.

So getting to my point of all this, the person that was my ex reached out to me via e-mail to basically say that they wanted to see how I was doing after all this time. And then came the second part… And that part was the fact that they admitted they messed up in our past relationship, and wanted to try again.

Now I have to admit that when they started to e-mail me after such a long time I was very cold with my replies and actually kept them to one word answers. When he sent the e-mail saying “Hi, how are you doing?” My reply was just “O-Kay.”

But after a few more messages from him I did get to talk a little more. I guess I was wondering what this was all about for I really was not sure and my guard was up. Then it progressed to text messaging, and that only happened when I forgot to remove the signature line in my e-mail reply that had my cell number.

Once I had noticed that I made that error I kind have known that a text would be next. Long story short after texting it became an actual phone call and I got the confession that we wanted me back. My first response to myself was.

“What the fuck? This is a joke right?

You’re kidding me? When? Why? What brought you to this idea? Please tell me you are kidding?”

But atlas it was not a joke. I had so many questions I wanted to ask them and Lord knows I did. But the one thing that really caught my attention was the fact that they admitted they was totally wrong and that he wanted to make things right again.

Now it’s not often (especially if they are gay…) when an Afro-American male admits when he is wrong, but he did admit it. Then again come to think about it, it’s very rare if anyone would admit to such a thing.

But they did and I did ask them to repeat it a few times just to confirm it, and they did admit one again (a few times actually…) But they did take full responsibility for what happened four years ago. Of course I was totally taken back by all of this, and we spent the next few days talking on the phone and getting reacquainted with each other once again.

After two days of talking on the phone we had set a night to actually meet, and that night was New Year’s Eve. We both did meet and I have to admit that it was a nice time together; their personality had totally changed from what it was in the past, I kind of had to admit that I felt that I was interacting with some sort of doppelgänger. Or maybe some sort of twin or pod person that we all see in sci-fi movies. But no it was actually him.

So now the thought I have is “What happens next with us?”  I guess only time will tell what will happen, but I am interested in finding out. So we will see after all who knows what is going to happen. Maybe something good will come from this. Who knows? Anything can happen at this point in time.  So I guess all I can say at this point is “Good luck and all the best to me in the start of the new year.”




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